You must have missed that whole part where I talked about how a woman telling a man what she wants doesn’t make him any more ready for it, it only puts pressure on him.
The problem is you think being aggressive and direct is the only way to have power, feel empowered or have any control over your life. When you realize you only have control over yourself, that frustrations only build when you have expectations, and that accepting others as they are and where they’re at on their own paths, in their own lives, is when you’re truly empowered.
But hey, go your own way, man. Good luck with it.