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Why He Didn’t Call

Three reasons you got ghosted

Niki Marinis
5 min readApr 19, 2023
Katie Dutch — used with permission

You went on a great date. You’ve played it cool, but you still haven’t heard from him. Why hasn’t he called? The date went well, didn’t it?

There are three reasons that guy isn’t calling.

There was no mutual connection

Within minutes of meeting up with him for your first date, you were overcome with excitement. He was absolutely perfect and gave you butterflies. After an amazing date and a quick kiss good night you were in love and convinced that he was “the one.”

Unfortunately, that first date was also your last, and you haven’t heard from him since. Why?

Quite simply, he didn’t feel the same way. He’s not a bad guy, but he’s not going to call you back. It happens. In fact, it happens more often than not.

Lack of mutual attraction isn’t anyone’s fault, and it’s certainly nothing to feel bad about. So what if he doesn’t feel the same way about you? 99% of the people on this planet aren’t going to be right for you.

Onto the next guy waiting to take you out!

He’s a jerk

Sometimes, no matter how smart, funny, and ridiculously good-looking you are, guys are jerks.

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Niki Marinis
Niki Marinis

Written by Niki Marinis

Weird Girl, thrift store owl collector, heartbreaker, lush, aspiring adult. IG: DocJohnnyFever nikimarinis@gmail.com https://nikimarinis.medium.com/subscribe

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