Why does wanting a man to earn my affection, attention, energy and exclusivity make me unavailable and cold? What makes you think I’m frigidly sitting there receiving without any thanks, appreciation, warmth and gratitude?

I’m not so desperate for a man’s company that I pay for dates or text for fear they’ve forgotten me.

I don’t believe in “equal rights” when it come to relationships. There is no tit for tat, I pay, you pay, I text, then you text, keeping score, control freak under the guise of “equality” nonsense.

There’s a balance by each member doing different things, not the exact same thing all the time for the sake of “equality.” Men and women work in different ways and that’s a good thing.

If you don’t feel like you’re valuable enough for men to put in more than bare minimum effort for your exclusivity, then enjoy putting in all that “equal” work. I’ll feign surprise when, for some strange reason, this plan just keeps not working out.

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Weird Girl, thrift store owl collector, heartbreaker, lush, aspiring adult. IG: DocJohnnyFever nikimarinis@gmail.com

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