Whip Appeal: Why She Has It

How you can get it and be your own elusive Cool Girl

Niki Marinis
6 min readMar 17, 2023
Katie Dutch — used with permission

We all know someone just like her…

She’s the girl who has men offering her marriage proposals, her name tattooed across their backs, and the world on a silver platter.

The only trouble she seems to have in the love department is deciding which lucky guy will hold her purse while she’s in the dressing room, take care of her when she’s sick, and would happily go to the drugstore at 2am to get her tampons when she’s out.

No matter what she does, she has a ton of options and men seem to go nuts for her. Ask them to explain it and they’ll tell you they don’t even know why.

Before they realize it, she’s stolen their hearts.

Often, she isn’t even amazingly attractive or overly sexually appealing. She may fall more along the lines of being average as far as looks go.

If she isn’t your textbook definition of gorgeous, sexy or inviting, what exactly is it about her that drives men crazy?

Even though she’s average in looks, she’s off the charts in personality, essence and strength of character. This woman is few and far between.

She’s always taken and if she isn’t, she will be soon enough because the men around her…

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Niki Marinis

Weird Girl, thrift store owl collector, heartbreaker, lush, aspiring adult. IG: DocJohnnyFever nikimarinis@gmail.com https://nikimarinis.medium.com/subscribe