The only way to find the right man is to love yourself.

People looking for relationship advice are usually actually looking for emotional manipulation techniques to try and make the person they want to be with want them back. They don’t want to hear that the best way to find a great relationship is to improve yourself. People don’t want to work on themselves, they want to maintain shitty attitudes and huge character flaws and still be handed the prize. Then they’re frustrated as to why they’ve been single for years or keep dating the wrong people.

Healthy women don’t need a man, they want one. Big difference. You can love yourself and still want to share your life with someone, love and be loved in return. And have great friends. This applies to all relationships, not just romantic.

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Weird Girl, thrift store owl collector, heartbreaker, lush, aspiring adult. IG: DocJohnnyFever

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