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The Love You Create

You’re more than you realize

Niki Marinis
2 min readAug 31, 2023
Katie Dutch — used with permission

You’re a big cosmic mirror projecting every emotion, every fear and insecurity, into The Universe where others pick up on it and feed on the energy.

If you fear they’ll cheat on you, they probably will. If you fear they’ll leave you, they more than likely will. If you’re suspicious without reason because you never healed all that paranoia, you’ll attract people who fulfill your fears.

While The Universe is a complicated thing, energy isn’t. It’s tangible and when you combine energy with lower emotions like fear, insecurity, self-loathing, jealousy, hate, resentment, envy and anger, it becomes the glue for similar energy to attach to it which then causes it to grow.

Healing your fears and other lower emotions is essential to attracting the love of your life and ensuring a lasting relationship. Remember that the next time you attract a player or someone who is unreliable.

Ask yourself, do those traits exist in me? Most of the time you’ll find they do and you are just drawing a mirrored reflection of you.

Everyone has flaws or hang-ups but the best relationships are the ones who’ve found the perfect balance and can navigate the waters of each other’s issues.

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Niki Marinis
Niki Marinis

Written by Niki Marinis

Weird Girl, thrift store owl collector, heartbreaker, lush, aspiring adult. IG: DocJohnnyFever nikimarinis@gmail.com https://nikimarinis.medium.com/subscribe

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