The Allure of the Drama Queen
If you ask most men they’ll tell you they love confident, secure women. So why do they seek out and stay with women who are nothing but drama and insecurities?
Do they want to protect them? Is it thrilling to always feel on edge? Do they think jealousy proves these women love them? Because it doesn’t. Jealousy has nothing to do with their feelings for you and everything to do with how insecure they.
But I guess it makes them feel desired to watch women “fight” over them? Try to one-up and out-do each other to prove they know you better? I mean, I guess that’s an ego stroke? Is that what you get out of all the passive aggressive social media posts?
Is it because you don’t have to question how they feel about you?
Do you have to put in less effort with insecure women, or more? If it’s more, does that make you feel useful and needed? Or are you lazy and choose women who’ll pursue you rather than go after someone you’re actually interested in? You’d have to take the risk that comes when it’s not a sure thing, and you’re not into that?
A woman throwing herself at you is a sure thing. It reeks of insecurity and desperation. If she hadn’t sold herself to you like it was a job interview would you have noticed her? Would you have ever pursued her on your own? I kind of doubt it. You’re with her because it’s easy. Comfortable? What you’re used to? You don’t think you deserve better? You have nothing better to do? You’re biding your time until something better comes along?
Do you like not being in charge or having to make any decisions? It’s not like Basic Bitches are hard to impress. Take them hiking and they’ll think you’re Gods gift. Is that what sells you on them? Not having to think or get emotionally attached? Is it that you don’t want to be alone? Or don’t know what you’re doing with your life or what you want out of it?
Do these women have qualities that outshine the anxiety and stress of their insecurities, the constant accusations of emotional abuse, the relentless need for validation?
So many men are miserable in their relationships because of the drama, and yet they stay.
I thought men didn’t like needy, clingy, jealous, insecure women. But you do. So many of you do, and I would like to understand why. Please enlighten me.