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Signs You’re Not Ready For a Relationship
This could be why you’re single
We put out vibes, whether they’re subtle or in your face. People can sniff us out and know more about our own motivations than we do.
Some of us are advertising to the world we’re not ready for a relationship.
Here are some signs:
You’re rehashing a previous relationship
Baggage City = Population 1.5
You’re still fully invested in someone who is long gone. It’s hard to get on the right path when you’re hell-bent on not getting over it.
You’re busy being miserable
We all know a shitty attitude and deep-seated animosity toward the human race lay the groundwork for tons of people to chase us down and beg us to be in a relationship.
Nope. Not anytime soon.
Or ever.
You’re worried about what your friends think
“My boys will think this chick isn’t hot enough.”
“My girls with think this dude is a total loser.”
You have to ask yourself who’s going to be in this relationship: me or my friends whose opinions are more important…
