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Signs He Only Wants Sex

Beyond the fact he’s a man and you met him on Tinder

Niki Marinis
4 min readSep 20, 2022
Katie Dutch — used with permission

What I’m about to say may shock you.

Some men only want you for sex.

WHAT?!

I know. Crazy, right?

They look at you like a juicy steak that needs to be flipped, tenderized, and flambéed. They don’t care how sweet or smart you are, or how much value you bring to the table. They want to brand you like a cow with their initials square on your ass.

OWNED

Here are some signs he only wants to bone.

He flat out said so

Fortunately, most of the time these guys will tell you flat out they’re only looking for a good time.

Or they dress it up in other variations like, “We can keep it on the down low” or “We’re just hanging out.”

Either way, take this at face value and run the other way. Don’t fool yourself into hoping for something better.

It isn’t going to happen.

He has a wife or girlfriend

This is a no-brainer, yet many women rationalize taking sloppy seconds will somehow lay the first brick on the path to true-love-forever.

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Niki Marinis
Niki Marinis

Written by Niki Marinis

Weird Girl, thrift store owl collector, heartbreaker, lush, aspiring adult. IG: DocJohnnyFever nikimarinis@gmail.com https://nikimarinis.medium.com/subscribe

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