“Nothing will stop a guy who’s interested. Not even you telling him you’re not interested.”

I say this because I have guy friends who I have turned down for dates who are still holding out hope, still check up on me, and still ask me out. Despite being explicitly clear by saying, “I don’t want to date you.” None to an obsessive, harassing degree.

My main point was I’m tired of seeing women chase after men, do all the work, and then be surprised when he’s not interested. Because a man who is interested in you will pursue you. In my experience the men I’ve chased gladly took everything I was giving them… while they were pursuing the women they really wanted. Chasing, pursuing, asking men out has not once worked for me in my billions of years dating. And not to toot my own horn, but I’m hot, smart, funny, fun, well educated, and have a huge rack. My relationships that worked were initiated by the men. Biology is a bitch.

I’d like to see women focus more on making their lives amazing and less on hunting down a relationship because they believe that is what truly defines their self-worth. I’d like to see women stop being me! 😂

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Weird Girl, thrift store owl collector, heartbreaker, lush, aspiring adult. IG: DocJohnnyFever nikimarinis@gmail.com

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