It’s not game playing. I didn’t say women should PLAY hard to get, they should BE hard to get.

Women shouldn’t pretend to be busy, they should BE busy living their damn lives, not waiting by the phone for some dude. Not drop everything they have going on because a guy might be interested. And no, men shouldn’t do that either.

If it were as simple as two people stating they want to be together we’d all be in relationship. Dating isn’t a technical contract negotiation. It involves stupid shit like feelings and chemistry. Ugh!

No one appreciates what they get handed for free. You appreciate what you earn. And you have to EARN this shit. I’m not gonna hand some guy my heart because he managed to send me a few texts.

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Weird Girl, thrift store owl collector, heartbreaker, lush, aspiring adult. IG: DocJohnnyFever nikimarinis@gmail.com

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