I never got flack from any guy for them paying. If they didn’t like it I’m assuming they never called me again. Next! In fact, I had one date flat out tell me he was insulted when I pulled my wallet out.
And if a guy suggests splitting the bill, we’re never seeing each other again. That’s not a date. Friends split bills, not dates. The fact he suggested splitting the bill is the sign he’s not interested. To hell with any guy who doesn’t like it or complains. Next!
We’ll get what we want when we stop accepting anything less. And we’re not being unreasonable.
You get it. You get what I get, what too many women still don’t get. Feminine isn’t a bad word. We’re putting in work, it’s just different work. You have to EARN this shit. I’m not handing it to anyone. My boyfriend earned me and that’s why he won my hand. :)