I feel your pain. I’m not fully over him or our relationship. The euphoria lasted for a few days, though I do feel a more lasting sense of distance. It takes so much more than merely not reaching out or stalking. When we’re thinking about them and still wondering what went wrong and how we can fix it, we’re still sending our energy to them. We have to refocus our energy on ourselves and improving our lives and working on our own issues. We have to let go with our hearts. And it’s hard and it takes a long time but we CAN do it. We won’t be perfect at it, but we can do it. 😊

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