Dating is a lot less work if you let the guys pursue you. They ask me on dates, they plan the dates, they contact me. A man who is truly interested in you will put in that effort. It’s a real easy way to weed casual/players out. Instead of you being the employee cramming for the interview, you are the company looking to hire the most qualified candidate. Applicants come to you and apply to be a part of your company. You sit back and work on making your company the most amazing it can be. When guys put in the effort to pursue you, you know they’re interested. If you do all the work you’ll never know if he really likes you or just said yes because you offered. It’s working for me. :)

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