Stating your plans is not an invitation. If you want to see me you’re going to have to actually ask me out.
I know, I know. You want a great date with a great person without putting in any effort. I get it. You know what’s not a great first date? “Hey, come watch me watch football.”
You know what’s not interesting or enticing?
“Hey I’m going to be out doing something at this place. If you want to show up while I’m there that would be really cool for me. I don’t know if you like or care about football but I’m not really concerned with what you’re getting out of this. You can entertain me between plays.”
I don’t accept bare minimum.
No, I won’t “take a chance” and accept this non-invite/statement of plans and go “just to see what happens” because it “might be fun.” You’ve already proven you don’t really care.
Men who are actually interested will ask you on an actual date and put in actual effort.
I’m not into wasting my time anymore. I’m not so desperate for attention or company that I’ll take anything some random guy throws vaguely near me.
I’m a woman who’s time is valuable and I will be treated as such, or you can get to steppin’.
If I’m a bitch because I have standards, then cool. I’ll be the bitch who ends up with a man who treats her right and has genuine interest in her.
If you’re ok with being an afterthought then there’s a guy at Sharkeez waiting for you.