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Coffee Dates: The Perfect Date or a Dud?

There’s a time and a place, and it’s not a weekend night

Niki Marinis
3 min readDec 31, 2020
Katie Dutch — used with permission

“I’d love to meet you in person, are you free this Friday?” he asked over the phone.

One of the last online dates I met, before I mercifully quit that nonsense, and I had been talking on the phone for about a week. It was time for a face-to-face to see what our true chemistry/attraction was.

“Sure. What did you have in mind?”

“There’s a Starbucks at Hollywood & Highland, lets meet there for coffee,” he said.

***Tires Screeching***

Starbucks?

On a Friday Night?

…in Hollywood?

You know those dating commercials that say “Actual First Date” at the bottom of the screen, when the two people awkwardly meet in front of a restaurant and then laugh and flirt over sushi and drinks? I’d love to go back to those awful online dates. The guys I met online slowly transitioned to being all about the coffee date.

When did coffee become every guys idea of a perfect date?

I mean, I get it, a coffee date is cheap and can end quickly if needed. But too many guys seem to feel like they’re really “doing something” if they ask to meet you for coffee…

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Niki Marinis
Niki Marinis

Written by Niki Marinis

Weird Girl, thrift store owl collector, heartbreaker, lush, aspiring adult. IG: DocJohnnyFever nikimarinis@gmail.com https://nikimarinis.medium.com/subscribe

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