21 Reasons a Relationship is Wrong For You Right Now

Stay single until you deal with this baggage

Niki Marinis
7 min readJan 12, 2024
Katie Dutch — used with permission

We put out vibes, whether they’re subtle or in your face. People can sniff us out and know more about our own motivations than we do.

Some of us are advertising to the world we’re not ready for a relationship.

Here are some signs:

You’re rehashing a previous relationship

Baggage City = Population 1.5

You’re still fully invested in someone who is long gone. It’s hard to get on the right path when you’re hell-bent on not getting over it.

You’re busy being miserable

We all know a shitty attitude and deep-seated animosity toward the human race lay the groundwork for tons of people to chase us down and beg us to be in a relationship.

Nope. Not anytime soon.

Or ever.

You’re worried about what your friends think

“My boys will think this chick isn’t hot enough.”

“My girls with think this dude is a total loser.”

You have to ask yourself who’s going to be in this relationship: me or my…

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Niki Marinis

Weird Girl, thrift store owl collector, heartbreaker, lush, aspiring adult. IG: DocJohnnyFever nikimarinis@gmail.com https://nikimarinis.medium.com/subscribe